The internet is a hugely social arena with many ways to meet new people. Platforms such as chat sites, social media, and webcam chat sites provide the perfect place to chat with girls. However, there is stiff competition on these sites and knowing how to keep a girl interested is essential. If you are boring or full of cheesy chat-up lines, you might find the girls going to chat with someone else. So, to help, here are 8 ways to chat with girls online:
Have A Unique Introduction
Most girls, especially the pretty ones, would have heard every chat-up line under the sun already. There’s no point using a one-liner that everyone knows as it will turn her off immediately. At the same time a simple ‘hi’ might be a bit boring. The best thing to do is try and come up with a unique opening line to capture the girls’ interest.
Find Out Her Interests First
Before you start talking about things you’re interested in, find out what she likes first and use a common topic for conversation. There’s no point in you droning on about the game last night when she has no interest in it whatsoever. Ask her a couple of questions to gauge what she likes and move the conversation in that direction.
Get Her To Do The Majority Of The Talking
If you get a girl to do most of the talking, she’ll end up talking about what she’s interested in. If you are actively listening while she’s talking, she will feel the conversation is going really well and is much more likely to continue conversing with you. Make sure you’re asking the right questions and encouraging her to talk.
Ask Interesting Questions
This is an important step in getting the girl you’re chatting with to open up a little and talk away. Make your questions interesting by focusing them on her. For example, you could ask her how she got in to her line of work or why she enjoys her hobby so much. This kind of question will give her a chance to tell you a story and get her talking. It will also make her feel more emotionally connected to you as you’re taking an interest in her life.
This is a hard one to do as you don’t want to come across as being bored. However, if you act a little bored and a little amused it will make a girl want to open up more. It is tough to get the combination exactly correct, but, with a little practice you can have girls dying to spill their guts to you,
Show You’re Paying Attention
While the conversation is flowing and she’s chatting away, be sure to show her you’re listening by providing feedback. Little remarks such as ‘hmmmm’, ‘Really?’, or ‘That’s crazy!’ can show her you’re interested in what she has to say. It will also encourage her to keep talking.
Don’t Show Off
A big mistake many guys make when talking to girls is they think exaggerating their achievements will impress them. However, being humble in yourself can actually intrigue girls and make them want to talk with you even more. Add a little mystery when answering questions about yourself and she is guaranteed to stay chatting with you.
Be Calm/Confident/In Control
Finally, it’s important to always remain calm, confident, and in control. Think before you speak and remain articulate and interesting. There’s nothing girls find more attractive than a guy who emanates confidence.